February 14, 2010

In fond memory of all agony aunts

Human beings never seize to amaze me! I guess its in our blood, to give away free advices. ( and I don't just mean Indians, there is an agony aunt within each and every human being that gets unleashed every time one perceives an needy soul) What joy lies in advising, I don't know? May be one feels obligated , I don't know. (May be you can tell me about it in the comments section)
May be it occurs since, one has a clueless sign hung on the forehead ( I can't disagree with that one. Confusion seems to be a second natural state of my mind these days!)

One always wonders, does one need advices. All one looks for is a sympathetic ear. As my roomie would say, " Art of listening is a gift. Not many posses it. People believe in giving advises and forget to listen and open their BIG mouth instead." How true...

So one is fated to listen to all the advises for the rest of the life. I wish I could say Shut up!.. but isn't that another advice! sigh! one is caught in ones own trap :)

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